on my lunch break, i just read this nytimes op-ed about dolores hart. the article started with the question' how do you marry god after you've kissed the king?' an intriguing start, don't you think? it then went on to talk about hart's career that reached its zenith in her role as elvis's sweetheart and her sudden departure from the star-studded hollywood to become a nun. she's been a nun for the last fifty years.
there is much to be commended in dowd's treatment of her faith. i do think faith forces us to choose radically. jesus, after all, calls us to pick up our cross if we are to follow him. the gate is small and the road narrow.
the piece ends ends with mentioning don robinson, whom hart almost married before she entered into the convent. as she was preparing for her marriage to him, the thought that she was 'in love with god' apparently struck her. so she traded her designer wedding gown with a coarse black and white nun's wear.
it's an interesting article, worth a read. but i lamented this presentation of love of god vs. love of husband by dowd. perhaps it's unfair to blame this on dowd. after all, she's only covering hart's choice.
i can't remember how it exactly goes. c.s. lewis pointed out that it's not the fierceness of our love for our spouses that's wrong with us. it's the lukewarm love that we have for god in comparison that's wrong. i wholly agree. as we love the god-given partners and experience its oneness, we are to be reminded of god's fierce love for us.
i hope all of you love your spouses fiercely. i hope you are reminded then of god's love for you.